Never Be Left Wondering What to Say to a Girl

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After going up to a woman to start a conversation, there are a couple of things you can say to the girl to keep things going well.

Use this advice to make your conversations with women more enjoyable. Note: Set aside a moment to let it click with you that she is her own person before you try this.

Don’t make things too easy for her. Have an air of mystery. Make her put a bit of effort in. Every now and then girls will attempt to test you. When this happens, throw a curve ball and test her. When girls test guys, the usual reaction is for a guy to either puff himself up or to completely fold so as not to piss her off. Both of these are a turn off. You are just ruining your chances with her.

In this sort of situation, you can do two things. When she asks you how many women you’ve been with or what kind of car you own, you can either:

One, you can ask her “What makes you want to know?” Don’t say this like a cocky jerk or you’ll just inspire her to throw her drink at you. This will unearth what she really wants to know.

In case you didn’t notice that, you answer questions with questions. Keep this to a minimum though or it might look like you are avoiding answering quesitions.

Second, you can tell her something that is plainly not true, but will come off as funny. Aim for anything insanely stupid. The worse it is, the better. It will let her know that you are confident enough in yourself that you can laugh at yourself. Very few men are bold enough to even kid around about something like their dating lives. If you give this a shot and it is clear that you are only joking, the girl will think of you as incredibly confident. If at any time you don’t know what to say to a girl, just try something to make her laugh.

Additionally, try to flirt a little in your conversation. If you don’t communicate that you’re in to her, then she might start to see you as a friend. Probably not what you want. It is really rather easy to let a woman know you like her. Don’t over think things and intricately calculate some speech about how you love her. That will not win her over. Just listen to her until she mentions something that genuinely imprresses you. Then say something like “That’s really sexy how you pour so much energy into your art,” or “I think women that can bake cakes are really sexy. “

Don’t even worry about it sounding normal. It can be a bit funny. Actually, it’s better if is seems a little funny.

I hope you’ve learned a thing or two about how to talk to women. This isn’t all that complicated. Let it be easy and fun.

If you liked this article, please also take a look at What to Say to a Woman, How to Start Conversations with Girls, and How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number

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