Jan
30
Revealed: the right way to kiss a girl
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Would it be fair to say you need help about kissing girls?
Do you want to know when the perfect time is for you to kiss her?
Having trouble deciding when is the right moment for you to take action?
This post was just made for guys like you so you are in luck!
I used to be just like you, constantly wondering when I should go in for the kiss. I understand where you are coming from because I didn’t want to make things all awkward too. Looking back now, I was mistaken.
It really doesn’t matter if she rejects you when you go in for the kiss. Assuming that you know that she likes you, she will let you kiss her and she’ll like it, so don’t be afraid to move forward.
Kissing girls isn’t that much of an issue, so you shouldn’t make it one. Be the guy who leads the woman, because girls follow if we show them how. What I mean by that is, if you make kissing her such a fuss, she’ll make it a fuss as well. So it’s important to remember you have to make the kiss just a casual happening. When you feel as if you 2 have a moment, move in for the kiss. I have also catered for the guys who really need a step by step guide on how to kiss a girl if they find this post too hard to follow.
Before you check out my article on kissing girls, I advise you to remember to keep everything casual. As a guy you have to know how to make her feel comfortable around you. If you do get rejected the first time when you move in for the kiss, relax, and just remember you can always go in for the kiss later on.
If you do make a fuss about the kiss, and she does reject you, you are going to make things really weird. You have to ensure that you don’t make her feel uncomfortable.
Discover how to kiss her step by step here: When To Kiss A Girl
Jan
30
Do you want to know how to seduce women?
Do you want to know how to get a girlriend?
Does your dating life really suck?
Well, it’s lucky you found this!
I’m going to write about what every guy wants to know, how to seduce women. Please, you need to really listening carefully and read what I write because this stuff is gold and will help you alot!
I know this sounds a bit weird, but the key to seduction is that you need to seduce the female mind before you go for her legs. In order to really get a girl you need to get rapport, comfort and attraction from her in a way that shows her you’re more than a friend.
Once you do all the things right, then the woman will want you to seduce her! This sounds soud a bit weird and counter intuitive at first, but keep reading so you can know what I mean here.
Men often seem to forget that the female mind is what they need to work on and that’s why they need to chase them. Note, not using logic or reasoning! You want to be the guy who can create feelings inside her that no other guy can or will be able to understand.
The reason why the jerks know how to seduce women is because they understand that they need to take women on an emotional roller coaster ride in order to seduce them. That’s the key to seduction. Having and understanding of knowing how to elicit the feelings you want from girls that you encounter.
Let me repeat this again, in order to seduce women, you need to seduce her mind. If you get her to be wondering, thinking and asking about you all the time, then you would have effectively seduced her. All that’s left for you is the easy part!
If you want to find out more about how to seduce women, then I suggest you check out my article here: Learn How To Seduce Women
Also, sign up to the 6 part seduction mini course, you won’t regret it!
Jan
30
Today we’re going to have a look at Scot McKay’s relationship management program in this post called “The Leading Man Review”.
Do you want to know how to wear the pants in the relationship?
Do you often feel as if your relationships are really not going anywhere?
Are you struggling to maintain relationships?
Well it’s good to know that Scot McKay has created a system for men to learn how to manage a relationship after getting into one.
Most guys learn how to get into a relationship but have no idea how to manage one. They don’t know what to act, say or do in order to maintain a long term relationship.
I know I had this problem and I know a lot of guys also suffer from this issue as well.
The course The Leading Man shows you how to be the man that knows how to handle a relationship. You’ll learn how to get a woman glued to your side and know how to be a man in a relationship. By the way, you also learn how to deal with drama!
The awesome course comes in both text and audio formats. If you dislike reading, then this would be perfect for you because you can listening to it in your ipod.
This is the only course that I have come across that actually teaches men how to handle long term relationships. This is a course for relationships and is not about pickup or seduction. This means if you are a complete newbie this program is probably not for you yet. If you are able to get a girlfriend but need help maintaining her. This is what you really need.
I have done a full review of it here, and you should check it out: Scot McKay Review
Jan
30
Flowers Online- best way to get your desired flower gift affordably
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sometimes we find it difficult to pick a present for anyone. many times you do not recognize the someone to whom you are giving the contribution. even if we know the human being we fail to decide on a useful gift for that someone. it is not easy to nearly remember all the likes and dislikes of your acquaintances and relatives. the contribution should be beautiful and it should also convey all your outlook appositely. Henceforth, gifting them flowers that convey your heartfelt feelings becomes the best and most suitable contribution for them.
blooms have their own appeal. There are very few things that straight away bring a grin on our face. Like for instance, flowers of varied tints, baby photographs, etc. are just a few examples of such things that with their beauty and pureness bring an unforgettable smirk on our face and also at the same time touch our affection. so, the blooms are an model souvenir for any time.
Any auspicious or holy juncture is incomplete without blossoms as they with their beauty and natural magnetism enlighten the time making it divine and stunning. Also, during the most grieved situations where terms are not enough to convey your sensations, blooms become the best source for reflecting your viewpoint without uttering a single word. you can communicate diverse approach with the help of blooms. However, before selecting flowers as gifts for some occasion, it gets very important that you identify the assorted types of blooms along with their gesture.
Not all the florist stores in the city have stock of all the types of flowers that utter different passions. Thus, to select blossoms for the special juncture from a huge collection of national as well as international blossoms, there are many online flower outlets that offer you a wide range of blossoms at a sensible price than the assorted flower supplier outlets in the city as the entire business is controlled over through the internet. You can buy flowers online through these online flower shops and also get them delivered in time. you can avail blooms at lower rates from these flower outlets. Nowadays, it is very easy to buy flowers from online flower stores and present them to your loved ones for any of the time.
Jan
30
by Dean Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics Dating System For Men
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Hey Dean,
My best friend Jim is in trouble. He needs a Mack Intervention. He hasn’t hooked up in over a year. He says he’s fed up with playing “the game”…and with the shitty luck he’s had, I can’t say I blame him. He’s been dumped, cheated on, and stood up more times than I can remember.
These days, when I’m able to force him to come out to the bar with the boys, he’s gunshy about even talking to women. The wind has been ripped from his sails. He’s formed this attitude that all women are bitches—especially the good-looking ones—and he’d rather just avoid the pain.
I just need to get my buddy laid. It doesn’t need to be a hottie. Can you suggest some pickup tactics, or a place to take him, so that I can break him out of his slump?
- Billy, Connecticut
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Dean Cortez here with some Tactical advice…
As for wanting to get your buddy laid, your intentions are good, but you wouldn’t really be helping him. In his emotional state, a one-night stand or a “happy ending” at the massage parlor might be the last thing he needs.
What Jim needs to learn is the art of how to attract women. Once he does, he’ll be operating with an advantage instead of a disadvantage. Instead of letting women judge and reject him, he will be attracting more women into his life constantly.
M.A.C.K. Tactics is about arming men with a set of tools and skills that they can use forever. Because the truth is, once you enter into a serious relationship, it’s important that you remain a masculine, confident guy who continues to make your woman feel attracted. Once you start slipping back into your “old” ways, that’s when she’ll start to tune out, and all kinds of problems develop.
As the saying goes, “You can give a man a fish, and feed him for a day. Or, you can teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime.”
I’d have to say most guys don’t believe they have what it takes to attract women. This is the status quo among single men, even though they might be able to fake a certain level of confidence. They might not be the social misfits living in their mother’s basement. They could be that crew of well-dressed guys standing around at the nightclub, who look like they’re out to meet girls and make something happen tonight, but in reality they fully expect to go home alone. (Since that’s what happens every time they go out.)
I can understand why so many guys lose heart. I wouldna’t show up at my job every day with a great attitude if I hadn’t gotten a paycheck in months. When a guy doesn’t have a clue how to attract women, it gets very frustrating and even depressing. Trying to introduce yourself to women at a bar, and being ignored, stings every time. Or, bringing a girl out on a date and being super-polite and charming for two hours, but then you never see her again because she says she’s “too busy”.
Why should these guys continue to approach women and risk their self-esteem, or any more of their time and money, when there is seldom any reward?
The answer is to abandon your old ways, and your old mentality, and become a Mack. The Mack never operates from a position of fear or anxiety, because he understands how attraction works.
You can learn a bunch of different pickup lines or “routines” that will help break the ice with women. You can have a great sense of humor. You can even have the looks of a Chippendale dancer and drive a Ferrari. But if you don’t understand and master how attraction works, women are never going to be into you on a deeper level.
So will the handsome, well-built Chippendale guy get attention from women? Sure. Some women will eagerly hand over their phone numbers, go on dates with him, and perhaps sleep with him because he’s got those superficial qualities that women are taught to think are “attractive.”
But if he doesn’t understand how to project the key masculine qualities that women respond to on an instinctual feminine level, even a guy with looks and money is going to wind up alone and ignored, just like regular guys. You’d be surprised how many decent-looking, wealthy men are out there, struggling to find a quality woman who wants them for anything other than their money—because they don’t know how to stimulate real attraction in women, and they don’t know how to talk to women.
Consider the average guy. If you sat him down on his living room couch next to a beautiful woman, he’d be utterly clueless about how to make her feel attraction for him. Instead he will do exactly what she expects him to do.
He’ll be really nice and do things to please her, while hoping that if they spend enough time together, she’ll eventually realize that he’d be a great boyfriend.
Unfortunately, this will never happen. What happens is that within the first minute or two, she realizes that she is NOT into this guy, and she starts figuring out her “exit strategy” to get away from him.
The Mack, on the other hand, understands how to “build a bridge” with her through creative conversation, and then escalate the situation to a physical level. He does it in a smooth, subtle way so that it never feels rushed or forced. Everything that happens feel like a natural progression.
Most importantly, he does not operate from a position of scarcity and need. (“I don’t want to rush things and screw it up, because who knows when I’ll have another chance with a girl this hot?”)
Instead, he operates from a position of confidence and abundance. (“I have plenty of options, and women find me attractive. I’m enjoying getting to know this girl, so I’ll go with the flow and see if she’s right for me.”)
The good news is that there are proven methods, and an actual step-by-step process, for making women feel attraction for you. Visit MackTactics.com and you can download a free 80-page book called the S.W.A.T. Guide (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics) that will get you started on the right path.
There’s no sense in wasting another night, or any more of your money, playing “the game” the way every other guy does. If you’re ready to start dating the women you deserve—and the women who deserve you—it’s time to Go Tactical.
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
MackTactics.com
Jan
30
Want To Know How To Attract Girls?
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Have you ever wanted to learn how to attract girls?
Unlike what most people think, attracting girls is not a thing that just magically happens. I would hate to disappoint women, but it’s not because of fate or destiny that made her fall in love with you.
All females are drawn to certain attributes of a man. Once you understand how to show women your sexy personality, then they will flock to you.
So what are the attractive attributes that I am talking to you about?
You need to let her know that you are interested in her more than just being a normal friend. This is important, because once you’re in the friends zone, it’s game over.
You also need to be a man, and let her know you have a higher social status than her. This means you need to let her know that you know what you want in life and you can make decisions and that you are in fact an alpha male.
If anything, you do not want to be the guy who has no real aim in life and is just happy to go with the flow. It is very appealling to have dreams! It’s even better and sexier to go out there and achieve your goals!
You need to let her know that she cannot make you do whatever she commands, so you’re not like the other guys who will bend over backwards just to please her. If you want to know how to pickup girls, you need to do what hot girls do. They play hard to get, and by definition they are being a challenge.
I know this post is a bit short… I’m a little rushed for time. But if you want a complete guide on How To Attract Girls including a sample conversation on how to sweet talk a girl, check out: Advice How To Attract Girls
If you are not experiencing the dating success that you want, you need to go there right now and check out my site. Think about it, what else do you have to lose?
Jan
30
by Dean Cortez, creator of MackTactics.com.com
So you’re single and you’ve recently relocated to Vegas. You’re adjusting to the broiling heat, always splitting your Aces and 8’s at the blackjack tables, and on a mission to hook up. You want to know how to pick up a hot girl in Sin City.
For guys, the Vegas singles scene presents its own unique challenges—along with an infinite assortment of stunners from every city in America and corner of the planet. Here’s some advice and dating tactics for you would-be Casanovas looking to score on the Strip:
Build your network. Whenever you hit the nightlife scene, make it a point to befriend doormen, VIP hosts and managers. In Vegas, these people tend to be courteous professionals. You simply need to introduce yourself, tell them how much you love their place, and have a short conversation. Being on good terms with these people will get you preferential treatment, and the girls always notice a guy who strolls in and gets a friendly welcome from the people in charge.
Hit the clubs in style. Ever since the nightclub Light, at the Bellagio casino, started offering European-style “bottle service,” the clubs in Las Vegas have made it practically impossible to find a seat UNLESS you shell out for a bottle of booze. Most guys who are new to Vegas assume you have to be a celebrity, or "connected," to get a VIP table. Tables are open to anyone, if they're not all booked up, and they are well worth the price. It might cost you and your friends a few hundred dollars, but in today’s Vegas club scene that’s the price of having a really fun time…instead of standing around with the tourists and having to stand in line to get a drink. And best of all, you can invite women to sit down at your table and have a drink. It’s an "opener" that most women will gladly agree to: “Hey, you and your friends should join us at our table for a drink.”
Know how to work the tourists. When women visit Vegas with their girlfriends, they come to shed their inhibitions and behave in ways they normally wouldn’t back home. Let them know you've got “insider” status, being a local, and make them want to get a little wild. One of my buddies has a great routine. After finding out a hottie is from out of town, he’ll tell her, “y’know, whenever I visit a new city for the weekend, I always want to have one amazing night I’ll never forget as long as I live. I can tell you want to have a big night…you seem like an adventurous, spontaneous woman.” Get her in this state of mind and make her know YOU are the guy who’s going to give her this fun experience. Invite her and her friends to roll with you to another bar or club—someplace new, or lesser-known. Make it seem like a super cool “insider” place that most people don’t know about.
Learn when to call it a night. In every other town in the US, there is a “last call” when the bars shut down and you need to make a possibly regrettable hookup, or give up and go home. Not in Sin City. At a time of day when your parents are finishing their breakfast, you can keep partying in after-hours clubs or bars that never close. For many guys, this means stumbling into a strip club and drunkenly hitting on exotic dancers to whom they are nothing more than an ATM machine on two legs—only to wake up the following afternoon with a screaming hangover and vague recollections of blowing an outrageous amount of cash on lapdances from some chick named “Mercedes.” (Or was it “Lexus?”)
Master the rules of the Vegas game, and you can roll like a rock star any night of the week. You have to be strategic and understand the Vegas "game". Remember the words of comedian Bill Maher: “For a man to walk into a bar and have his choice of any woman he wants, he would have to be the ruler of the world. For a woman to have the same power over men, she’d have to do her hair.”
For the best dating advice on how to meet single girls, talk to them, build connections, and close the deal with them, visit MackTactics.com and download our free 80-page book: "The S.W.A.T. Guide” (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics). Right now, this book is free for a limited time!
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
Jan
30
Dean Cortez here. In this column I’ll answer a question one of my readers had about how to get a very hot younger woman back to his place… and I decided to reveal a very simple but extremely effective strategy that I’ve been using recently.
Special tactics must be used, and special considerations made, when the situation involves an older man and younger woman. In order to pull off an older man-younger woman relationship, you’ve got to understand — and know how to counter — her suspicions, anxieties, and insecurities. Even more importantly, you’ve got to know the advantages that you possess as an older guy — and how to capitalize on them.
Anyway, on to the letter…
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Hi Dean,
I’m a 39-year-old advertising executive and the other day, I met a girl at my gym who is a KNOCKOUT.
24 years old, from Brazil, and so friggin' beautiful that every guy in the room couldn't stop staring
when she got on the Stairmaster!
I was lucky enough to be on the Stairmaster next to her, and I used some of the techniques
in your new program, "Dating Younger Women," to start a fun, interesting conversation with her.
I “closed” the conversation by getting her phone number and telling her I was going to check out this new Brazilian restaurant on Friday night. I mentioned the great food and music, told her I knew she would love it, and invited her to come along. (Your book taught me how to get a girls phone number the correct way, and ask her out, instead of fumbling and getting turned down.)
So, we are set to go out on Friday night…
But Dean, my brother, this is no ordinary date.
This chick is the woman of my dreams. I've always had a thing for hot, curvy Brazilian women with incredible bodies and long, silky black hair…
Honestly, is there a guy who DOESN'T? Lol…
Anyway, I could really use some special advice to make sure this date goes perfectly.
I don't want the date to end with an awkward handshake or a hug. I want to take this girl home and
“seal the deal.”
Can you hook me up with a Tactic that is guaranteed to score a home run?
- Rich, New York City
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Dean Cortez here. I’ve got a move for this situation that I developed recently, and it’s KILLER.
The first thing you need to understand is, women (especially younger ones) have a FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN.
This is why it’s so important to project that you are a safe, stable, trustworthy guy.
You can accomplish this by "dropping hints" during the conversation in a strategic way. You already know all about this if you’ve read my books.
Now in this situation…when your objective is to bring her back to your place tonight…and she’s never been to your place before…it is perfectly normal for her to feel a bit of reluctance.
This is because your place -- your environment -- is UNKNOWN to her.
Her female radar “kicks in,” and her mind comes up with reasons NOT to go there, such as…
- Your pad is dirty and unsanitary. (Women feel uncomfortable in that type of environment.)
- You might have some weirdo roommate who is going to creep her out.
- You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn’t tell her about — and she might show up and start some drama!
- You might live REALLY far away. When she drives home later, she might have trouble finding the way back to her place.
Those are just a sample of the concerns that could be popping up in her mind. It doesn’t matter if your residence has none of those issues. TELLING her that your place is clean, and close, and comfortable, isn’t really going to assuage her concerns. She needs to experience it for herself.
The bottom line is this: you've got to eliminate her suspicions and fears so that it's easy for her to think, "sure, why not, your place sounds OK. Let’s go there.”
So how do you make her think this way?
You let her see and feel your place, and get familiar with it, before you bring her on the date!
It’s actually SUPER easy to do…
Here's how you should play it. When you call her and set up the date, tell her to MEET YOU outside of your place, so that you can ride in your car together and go to the date location.
(Bar, restaurant, coffee shop, whatever.)
Women ALWAYS agree to this. Because A), they are curious about where you live. They are nosy! They want to see what the outside of your home looks like.
(Notice, you didn’t say “come over and hang out at my place.” You said, “meet me OUTSIDE my place so that we can ride to the restaurant together.”
And B), they feel more comfortable riding in your car with you, especially if the date location is a place they are not familiar with. She'd probably rather have you drive her there.
OK, now here is how to use this Tactic –
When her car pulls up to your place, go outside — like you’re ready to go on the date — and then tell her you forgot to do something. You need to go back inside and send an email or make a phone call:
“Hey! How are you…oh my God, I just remembered, I need to send an email (or make a phone call) before we go. It's something I need to do for my work. Come on in for a minute.”
She will agree to this. Naturally, she is curious to see the INTERIOR of where you live.
So you bring her into your place …
Pour her a glass of wine (or some water, if she doesn't drink), and then you go into the other room and pretend to handle your phone call or email.
The idea is this: you are letting her GET FAMILIAR with your place. This will no longer be an “unknown environment” to her.
While you spend 5 or 10 minutes in the other room, you are leaving her alone to CHECK OUT your pad.
And trust me, she WILL check it out. She’ll snoop around a little, look at your pictures, maybe check inside your fridge…she'll be on the lookout for evidence of a wife, or girlfriend, that you didn't mention…
And this means you MUST have a clean place. Your bathroom must be absolutely spotless. I'm talking STERILE -- surgery could be performed inside your bathroom! That’s how clean it should be.
Why? Because she will probably want to use it. (Some scented candles and plush towels on the rack make the right impression.)
So, after 5 or 10 minutes, you finish up your “business” and you come back into the living room and rejoin her. Now the two of you get in your car and go on your date.
That all sounded very simple. But letting her spend a few minutes inside your place can make a major psychological difference.
Because, at the end of the date, when you suggest going back to your place — to have a glass of wine, watch a movie, or whatever other strategy you use from my Dating Younger Women program – she ALREADY KNOWS your environment.
She already KNOWS that your home is a comfortable place to go back to, and chill out.
It's clean and private, and she knows that you're a good host who makes her feel comfortable.
So you take her out for a nice time, you get her back to your place, and that is when the MAGIC happens 
I used that simple tactic last week with two different hot younger women — a 23 year old, and a 27 year old.
Use it -- and enjoy. Check out the site YoungerDating.com to learn the secrets that over 25 top dating and seduction gurus use to flirt with younger women. An older man-younger women relationship is a lot more natural — and easy to pull off — than you think!
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
YoungerDating.com
Jan
28
The Secret To Being Confident With Women
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by MackTactics.com creator Dean Cortez
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Hey Dean,
I purchased your programs, Mack Tactics and the Bad Boy Blue Print, and both are fantastic. They’re packed with powerful conversational tricks and tips. (I found the “Conversation Control” and “Negotiations” chapters to be especially helpful.)
To be very frank with you, I was basically an introvert, and after learning your material I have a new understanding of what Attraction is and how it works. I’ve started to broaden my social network, and I’m meeting more women.
I’ve learned many great strategies for how to meet single girls, but in this process of development I have a question for you. I am still unable to get the bigger picture of life. I just don’t possess the inner confidence. Simply put, I understand how to talk to women now…but how can I feel like I can “back it up?”
I want strong Inner game because only that will lead to success in the long run. Do help me out in this regard.
Thanks for everything,
- Richard
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Dean Cortez replies:
Richard, you hit the nail on the head when you referred to this as a “process of development.” It is an ongoing mission. There are no magic solutions that are going to transform you into a cocky, confident, smooth “ladies’ man” overnight.
The same way that when you decide to get in better physical shape, you’re not going to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime after three workout sessions in your basement.
The most important thing my Mack Tactics program does is give you a rock-solid FOUNDATION so that you can start meeting more women, pick up on girls, and start dating them with more style, originality, and confidence.
So your question, basically, is how can you start feeling more confident. I’d like to discuss this with you for a minute.
There are a lot of corny books full of dating advice, and they all basically say the same thing: “Be confident.” “Women really dig confident guys.” Blah blah…
Duh! That’s completely OBVIOUS. But how do you actually BECOME more confident around women, and stop feeling shy and anxious?
It’s like telling a short guy, “Be taller. Then you will get more phone numbers, dates and positive interactions.”
Or telling a skinny guy, “Be a big, muscular hunk. That is the big secret.”
Uh, yeah, OK…but how the heck is that realistically possible?!
Here’s how it works. Confidence is created through success, and success is gained through skill.
It’s a three-step process:
- Learn the tactics and skills you need to talk to women.
- What happens as a result is, you start getting way more successful with girls.
- The more success you have with women, the more your confidence grows.
As you start getting better with women, your confidence level rises. You begin to understand that walking up to hot women, or dating a few different simultaneously, is totally possible. If you want to go out and pick up girls in bars, it’s not a scary thing that causes anxiety. It’s actually a lot of fun!
But you’ve got to learn to walk before you run. I want you to build up your confidence in small increments. If you only measure “success” by how many beautiful women you sleep with, you’re going to keep feeling frustrated and disappointed in yourself.
So over the next week, I want you to make this a goal: you’re going to meet three new women and get their email addresses.
NOT their phone numbers. Just get their email!
AND, you’re not going to try to “trap” girls into talking to your for 20 or 30 minutes.
YOU will be the one to end the conversation first!
See, the average guy thinks a conversation is a “success” if he can keep the girl talking for a long period of time. He’ll meet a girl at a bar and tell her his entire life story in the first half-hour! As long as the girl isn’t telling him to get lost, he thinks he’s making headway.
Actually, she’s probably getting awfully bored of this guy, but she’s too polite to walk away…
I want you to take the opposite approach. Have this attitude as you head into conversations: you’re probably only going to give each girl 5 minutes of your time. Then, you’re going to get her email address, move on, and contact her the next day.
Talk to girls using the techniques laid out in the M.A.C.K. Tactics book, and after 5 minutes, tell her, “Well it was nice meeting you, I can tell we’ve got some things to talk about. Or, “It seems like you and I have a lot of things in common.”) “Hey, I have to run — do you have email?”
Notice how I phrased it. The concept of phrasing — being aware of how you choose your words and put them together — can make the difference between failing and succeeding with women, and I explain this in detail in the M.A.C.K. Tactics books and video courses.)
I didn’t say, “Can I get your email address?”
I didn’t say, “Do you mind if I email you sometime?”
Instead, I said: “Do you have email?”
Of course she has email! Everyone does. She’ll say “yes,” and now you’re going to take our your little notebook and pen (a Mack always carries these items) and hand them to her. Say, “write it down for me.”
See, when you ask a girl for PERMISSION, this gives her the opportunity to say “no.”
If you ask her, “Can I get your phone number?”, she might think of the NEGATIVE possibilities. (Maybe this guy is going to call me all the time and annoy me…)
But when you simply say to her, “Do you have email?”, and hand her the pen and paper, she won’t think it’s any big deal. She writes down her email address for you, and then you’ll head out and contact her tomorrow.
Are you with me?
Do this two or three times over the next week, and I guarantee you are going to feel a confidence boost like you haven’t felt in a LONG time.
If you go to bars or clubs, don’t take an “all or nothing” view: “I’ve got to hook up with a girl TONIGHT, or else this is a waste of time, and I suck.”
For now, I want you to enjoy a few short, fun conversations with women using your Mack Tactics… no pressure, no big expectations… and go home with some email addresses. You can translate them into dates.
And in the meantime, you are REPROGRAMMING yourself for success.
In the past, when you were talking to an attractive girl, you were probably thinking “where do I take it from here? What should I talk to her about next? How can I make sure women don’t see me as boring?”
NOW you’re thinking, “I’m only going to give this girl five minutes of my time, and I’ll contact her on email tomorrow if I decide I want to take it further. I do this all the time, and it’s no big deal.”
Start having lots of these “mini-conversations” in which YOU are the busy guy who needs to go. You want to leave her in a curious state of mind. I know you’ll be thrilled with the results, and how this makes you feel.
Go Tactical!
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
Jan
28
How To Handle It When A Woman “Tests” You
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by Dean Cortez, founder of the Mack Tactics Dating System For Men
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Hi Dean,
I’ve read your books, watched your awesome instructional videos, and learned some killer strategies for how to pick up a hot girl. And they worked — I’ve now been dating a beautiful girl for a few weeks and we’re getting along great. The only problem is her chump ex-boyfriend, who’s still obsessed with her and keeps trying to get back with her. She says it’s over between them, but sometimes when we’re together he calls her and starts saying he can’t live without her, he just wants one more chance, blah blah, and then she gets all upset and emotional and it ruins our evening. I remind her why they broke up in the first place: her ex boyfriend is a creep who cheated on her! So why does she continue to waste her time on him? And how do I get him out of the picture?
Jason
Miami, FL
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Dean Cortez here with some special dating tactics for this situation…
As a Mack, you must always be a source of strength and stability to women. This means being firm and decisive whenever she is experiencing conflicting emotions. (Which, due to the delicate emotional nature of women, is bound to happen on a regular basis.)
She looks to you to provide this strength. In fact, women will frequently TEST you to see if you’re “man” enough to show this strength.When you fail to do this, she’s not going to feel secure around you and her attraction will diminish.
Right now, only a few weeks into the relationship, you’re facing a test. How you respond to this test is going to make her feel MORE bonded to you, or it’s going to drive her away. (And believe me, every time she blabs to her ex on the phone while you’re sitting there twiddling your thumbs, it makes you look really weak.)
Weakness in the presence of women comes in many forms. One of the most common is the inability to be decisive, as demonstrated in the following phone conversation…
HIM: I was thinking if you’re free tonight, maybe we could do something…
HER: What do you have in mind?
HIM: Umm, I’m not sure. Maybe see a movie?
HER: Are there any good movies playing?
HIM: I could check…what kinds of movies do you like?
HER: Well, I really like scary movies. What about you?
HIM: Um, scary movies, action, comedies, whatever. I know there’s this new movie with Eddie Murphy…
HER: Oh yeah, I saw the commercial. I don’t think I’d like it.
HIM: Yeah, I thought the same thing.
HER: I’m a little hungry—do you want to get something to eat?
HIM: Sure. Where do you want to go?
HER: What kind of food do you like?
HIM: All kinds. What do you like?
This could go back-and-forth for twenty minutes without any decisions being made. Does this sound like a guy who is capable of making a woman feel safe, secure and protected? Being indecisive about picking a restaurant or a movie might seem minor. But when a woman is evaluating you as a potential mate, she needs to know that you are capable of making decisions and leading the way.
The Mack would have the plan worked out before he calls:
HIM: So, Amanda, you mentioned you don’t have work on Friday night. I’m going to take you to this cool little restaurant that you’re going to love, and then we’re going to see a movie that is supposed to be amazing. I’ll pick you up at seven, be ready to have some fun.
HER: Sounds great, see you then.
In the situation described above, it is important for Jason to be firm and decisive about her drama with her ex. If she’s taking phone calls from him while she’s out with you, then obviously she still has feelings for the guy that she needs to work out. Don’t try to make her “choose,” and don’t make disparaging remarks about her ex because this might cause her to start defending him. Don’t get caught up in the drama — you want to be above it.
HER: My ex keeps calling me. I really feel guilty about breaking up with him. I’m not sure what to do.
YOU: I’ll tell you what Jennifer? I think you should talk to him tomorrow, when we’re not together, and work that situation out because I know you’re ready to move on. Take some time with it if you need to. I’m here for you if you need anything, just let me know when you’ve worked it out.
This response shows confidence. You’re not acting worried about losing her. If she does go back to that wimp, you know she’s not the kind of girl you should be with anyway. What makes the average guy stress out in this situation is his scarcity mentality: he fears he’s going to lose her and will jump through hoops to hang on.
The Mack, on the other hand, has an abundance mentality. He knows there’s no shortage of beautiful, drama-free women who respect him and his time. He lays down the facts: either she’s going to work out her personal baggage, or he’s moving onto the next.
Be decisive and certain about your world. Women are bound to get emotional and anxious at times, and when they go into that state, demonstrating firmess and certainty is what will bond them to you.
If you want to take your skills and confidence with women to a higher level, and become the super-attractive man that women want, visit MackTactics.com for the best dating advice and more than 101 high-powered strategies and techniques for getting the women you want and deserve.
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez